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dirt track date -- Saturday, July 06, 2002 -- 02:29:01 PM

So why the hell haven't you left the church yet? I have church-shopped off and on for decades, and have never found anything comparable. I disagree with most of the church's teachings, but then so do most other Catholics I know. In what other religion can you cheerfully ignore the official line but still be welcome? I guess that's why I haven't left.

What about you?

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mollyT -- Wednesday, February 25, 2009 -- 01:11:06 PM -- 3923 of 4144

Today is no food.

But I get terribly woozy and stupid if I don't eat, so I'm just eating lightly.

Anna Piranha -- Wednesday, February 25, 2009 -- 06:03:55 PM -- 3924 of 4144
Free From the Tyranny of Pants!

I thought it was light food, smaller meals than normal and nothing between meals rather than no food at all. That's how we've always done it. I had peanut butter and cereal for lunch and it will probably be pancakes for dinner.

I'm giving up spousal gatekeeping for Lent.

CurbSide -- Wednesday, February 25, 2009 -- 06:47:09 PM -- 3925 of 4144
I have cheese touch.

It's light food but I am claiming an exemption due to my delicate condition.

Lizzie T. -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 08:38:20 AM -- 3926 of 4144
Oh, for crying out loud.

I think I need to give up procrastination for Lent. It's something I really enjoy and am very good at, and my life right now is such that it's no big deal if I procrastinate until the cows come home. Getting off my ass will be a considerable inconvenience and will certainly keep me in mind of the season.

theDiva -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 10:06:08 AM -- 3927 of 4144
When I want Gregorian, I go to Scranton. -- Mom

Lizzie, you crack me up.

Lizzie T. -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 10:15:31 AM -- 3928 of 4144
Oh, for crying out loud.

I'm serious! It's only 1015 and already I miss my beloved procrastination. I've gotten tons of shit done, but I could be fucking around.

Frank Black -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 10:56:23 AM -- 3929 of 4144
Come over to the dark side. . . .we have cookies.

Hmmm, maybe a bit less of the potty mouth might be in order for Lent. . . . .

=)

Weaver -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 11:02:40 AM -- 3930 of 4144
Moderate dimorphism and covert ovulation pretty much explains it all.

So, having given up persecuting Catholics for Lent, I have decided that if you don't go to Mass at least a couple times a month, and if your spouse doesn't go and your minor children don't go, you aren't Catholic, and I can persecute you as a backslider.

I haven't checked with that German guy on this, but it's my current canon.

Lizzie T. -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 11:19:49 AM -- 3931 of 4144
Oh, for crying out loud.

Frank, my sister is the one who gives up swearing for Lent. Not me!

theDiva -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 11:42:35 AM -- 3932 of 4144
When I want Gregorian, I go to Scranton. -- Mom

yeah, fuck that noise.

JL Finch -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 01:13:48 PM -- 3933 of 4144
What in the Sam Hill am I doing?

I couldn't believe it when I went to Mass last night . . . there was noplace to park. The church was packed. If only they could do that on Sundays. Father said if he had known so many people were going to show up he would have taken up a collection!

theDiva -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 01:24:22 PM -- 3934 of 4144
When I want Gregorian, I go to Scranton. -- Mom

A&P Catholics!

dirt track date -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 04:32:39 PM -- 3935 of 4144
They couldn’t have been spies,” she said. “Look what she did with the hydrangeas.”

I work in a nest of Catholics, and everybody said Ash Wednesday was packed at their church as well. Nothing like Lent and a good old fashioned economic panic/depression to get people back into church.

CurbSide -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 04:38:45 PM -- 3936 of 4144
I have cheese touch.

Ours was not packed, although an early morning Mass would tend not to be. There was also a noon and an evening Mass. Sunday morning services are usually standing room only in my parish.

Anna Piranha -- Thursday, February 26, 2009 -- 09:34:31 PM -- 3937 of 4144
Free From the Tyranny of Pants!

But on weekday holy days, most people can only make it to the 5:30. (8:30a being our other option.) Regular mass is split between 2 Saturday services and 2 Sunday services. We have 5:30 mass every weekday, and there are generally quite a few cars in the lot when I pick Augs up from school.

ElenaW -- Friday, February 27, 2009 -- 08:07:34 PM -- 3938 of 4144

You can't persecute me .. nyah!

Yeah, Ash Wed. at 7 pm was packed into the all purpose room. We were there a looonnnng time.

We'll be at the IL's this Sunday, so I will not be able to make a direct comparison on attendance rates.

Weaver -- Friday, February 27, 2009 -- 08:31:14 PM -- 3939 of 4144
Moderate dimorphism and covert ovulation pretty much explains it all.

You can't persecute me .. nyah!

During Lent.

Fortunately, the Anglicans are available year round.

theDiva -- Friday, February 27, 2009 -- 08:46:15 PM -- 3940 of 4144
When I want Gregorian, I go to Scranton. -- Mom

Weaver -- Friday, February 27, 2009 -- 08:49:44 PM -- 3941 of 4144
Moderate dimorphism and covert ovulation pretty much explains it all.

Wow, I was skinny back then!

theDiva -- Friday, February 27, 2009 -- 09:29:50 PM -- 3942 of 4144
When I want Gregorian, I go to Scranton. -- Mom

we all were!

dirt track date -- Sunday, March 01, 2009 -- 08:12:41 PM -- 3943 of 4144
They couldn’t have been spies,” she said. “Look what she did with the hydrangeas.”

I'm going to have to quit posting in this thread and start up in the Frozen Chosen thread, for I have found my church home.

After years of soul searching and being on the fence, I've decided I have to find another faith community where I can wholeheartedly join in and not be forced to ignore or excuse things that I find objectionable. After years of prayer and contemplation and struggle, I found this community. It is a 20 minute walk from my house to church, and it sounds trivial but when I lived in an apartment complex of Orthodox Jews I learned how wonderful and peaceful it is to walk to your place of worship on the Sabbath.

The final straw for me was this: Oregon Jesuit Province files for bankruptcy

The number of abuse claims is simply shocking. And the method for dealing with abusers was to dump them on Native villages in Alaska--where they continued to prey on children.

I knew at least three of the Jesuits named in various documents--one was my pastor for ten years.

I'm just sick at my stomach for all of the people that were hurt by these men. I can't continue to tithe and support the power structure that decided that this coverup was the best way to further the mission of the church, and I can't support the power structure that insists on a vow of celibacy and thereby attracts closet cases with a loathing of their own sexuality into the priesthood.

And the Nazi pope and his Holocaust denier bishop was the final nail in the coffin.

Weaver -- Monday, March 02, 2009 -- 09:31:03 AM -- 3944 of 4144
Moderate dimorphism and covert ovulation pretty much explains it all.

The people who can't persecute you during Lent if you are Catholic welcome you.

Frank Black -- Tuesday, March 03, 2009 -- 11:01:52 AM -- 3945 of 4144
Come over to the dark side. . . .we have cookies.

A heretic! A heretic! In our very midst!

Weaver -- Friday, March 06, 2009 -- 11:08:51 AM -- 3946 of 4144
Moderate dimorphism and covert ovulation pretty much explains it all.

Something to meditate on during Lent: Should Catholic hospitals perform abortions, if the only alternative is to close?

Mostone -- Thursday, March 12, 2009 -- 09:36:46 AM -- 3947 of 4144

Vatican Backs Excommunications Stemming From an Abortion

A senior Vatican cleric on Saturday defended the excommunication of the mother and doctors of a 9-year-old girl who had an abortion in Brazil after being raped. The child was pregnant with twins

...

The regional archbishop, José Cardoso Sobrinho, excommunicated the mother for authorizing the operation. He also excommunicated the doctors, who carried out the operation for fear that the 80-pound girl would not survive a full-term pregnancy.
RainCityChick -- Thursday, March 12, 2009 -- 04:20:26 PM -- 3948 of 4144
in dreams begin responsibilities

This won't bring DTD back to the RC church, but:In Letter to Bishops, Pope Admits ‘Mistakes’

In which the Pope and Vatican curia basically say, "oh shit! we should have been reading the internet all along!! News gets out so fast that way!"

It's infuriating that the mother and physicians of the girl mentioned above were excommunicated, but not the rapist.

Frank Black -- Monday, March 23, 2009 -- 03:32:28 PM -- 3949 of 4144
Come over to the dark side. . . .we have cookies.

I think many are either leaving or at least staying away from Mass from my Parish due to the new music director. I know three of us feel that way. She's made it much more like a musical and less like a Mass. I don't like it, but I've still been going regularly, almost treating attendance like a built-in penance.

CurbSide -- Monday, March 23, 2009 -- 03:36:00 PM -- 3950 of 4144
I have cheese touch.

In what way is she making it more like a musical than a Mass?

mollyT -- Monday, March 23, 2009 -- 03:42:44 PM -- 3951 of 4144

Is the next closest parish any better? I'll freely admit that I don't go to the church two blocks away because I don't like the music.

Also, their crucifix is creepy. And the 10:00 mass, the one I'm most likely to go to is "family mass" which is really "kiddie mass." And my favorite Sunday breakfast spot is on the way to the church farther away.

OK, so I have several (shallow) reasons for not going to the church two blocks away.

CurbSide -- Monday, March 23, 2009 -- 03:52:30 PM -- 3952 of 4144
I have cheese touch.

We switched because we could not understand the priest at the old parish. The new church is in a town we hope to move to eventually, so it seemed like a better idea than to go to the other church nearby, which was actually closer.

dirt track date -- Tuesday, March 24, 2009 -- 11:16:25 AM -- 3953 of 4144
They couldn’t have been spies,” she said. “Look what she did with the hydrangeas.”

Frank--is the music director the same one that drove me out? The woman with the talent for picking the worst of the bad guitar music. Listening to "Hosea" every week in Lent last year made me want to pluck out my eardrums with red hot tweezers.

Weaver -- Tuesday, March 24, 2009 -- 11:17:59 AM -- 3954 of 4144
Moderate dimorphism and covert ovulation pretty much explains it all.

Hey, since when could Anglicans post on this thread?

dirt track date -- Saturday, March 28, 2009 -- 02:18:15 PM -- 3955 of 4144
They couldn’t have been spies,” she said. “Look what she did with the hydrangeas.”

I guess I got out just in time: Newt Gingrich is joining the Catholic church

Weaver -- Sunday, March 29, 2009 -- 11:13:47 PM -- 3956 of 4144
Moderate dimorphism and covert ovulation pretty much explains it all.

Indeed, it would be a shame to be a member of a Christian organization that allowed sinners to join.

Frank Black -- Monday, March 30, 2009 -- 11:25:40 AM -- 3957 of 4144
Come over to the dark side. . . .we have cookies.

In what way is she making it more like a musical than a Mass?

(Sorry, haven't come back in a while)

Well, this week she went full-bore Jesus Christ Superstar, complete with that ol' backbeat rhythm on the responsorial psalm. Haven't heard the pipe organ in weeks, she just keeps making everything far more contemporary and with songs that are complicated enough for the choir to sing, let alone the congregation. And she has background music for the opening prayers. If I wanted a song and dance gospel revue I'd go protestant.

dirt track date -- Monday, March 30, 2009 -- 12:51:26 PM -- 3958 of 4144
They couldn’t have been spies,” she said. “Look what she did with the hydrangeas.”

Does she have a giant screen in front yet with the lyrics on powerpoint slides?

Weaver--who cares that he is a sinner. But he's already telling Fr. Jenkins at Notre Dame that he's getting it all wrong.

The man's arrogance is breathtaking. I can't wait for him to start bossing the Pope around. That should be good.

Frank Black -- Monday, March 30, 2009 -- 01:02:58 PM -- 3959 of 4144
Come over to the dark side. . . .we have cookies.

I'm just waiting for her to announce that Fr. Oliver will no longer be needed.

mollyT -- Monday, March 30, 2009 -- 01:54:34 PM -- 3960 of 4144

Well, there's no likeability requirement for becoming Catholic.

Since we cannot know another's heart, we can only assume his intentions are sincere, and hope that he finds grace and peace through the sacraments.

I'm sure the Episcopal church would grant him the same respect.

I'm also sure the Church is big enough to include Newt Gingrich. And he's easy enough to ignore.

A lot of people think Fr. Jenkins is wrong. Gingrich is far from alone on that.

Weaver -- Monday, March 30, 2009 -- 05:58:57 PM -- 3961 of 4144
Moderate dimorphism and covert ovulation pretty much explains it all.

who cares that he is a sinner

Jesus cares.

dirt track date -- Monday, March 30, 2009 -- 11:27:51 PM -- 3962 of 4144
They couldn’t have been spies,” she said. “Look what she did with the hydrangeas.”

More people are changed by Notre Dame than change the beliefs of the ND community. I heartily support their gesture toward Obama and I find it encouraging that he accepted their invitation.

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